Non-Celibacy

  My celibacy is on purpose. You see, it is most certainly not an accident. Too many years of faking #newyearnewme led me to bed after bed of bullshit and lies. "My lies." Lies I told myself saying “I can handle it" as he licks his lips and leans in, “I’m not really looking for … Continue reading Non-Celibacy

Choose Loneliness After A Breakup

Why are we so quick to jump into a new relationship after a breakup? Even if it's casual-dating, hookups, and one-night-stands, why do we feel the need to find a replacement to help us heal over the pain of our past relationships? We hear things like: it's time to get back out there. the best … Continue reading Choose Loneliness After A Breakup