to forgive them you must first forgive yourself.
Category: Toxic Relationships
Love Lies
You will not have to lie to yourself for love.
What I Allowed
Admitting what I once allowed was one of the hardest things I have ever done ...
Why Your Ass Needs to Break Up With Him
Break up with him if your childhood self would be ashamed of what you allow in your relationship.
5 Reasons I Chose Single-Mom Life
I had to ask myself if settling was more important than my sanity.
Dear Toxic Men
A letter to every toxic man who tried to manipulate a woman.
Non-Celibacy
My celibacy is on purpose. You see, it is most certainly not an accident. Too many years of faking #newyearnewme led me to bed after bed of bullshit and lies. "My lies." Lies I told myself saying “I can handle it" as he licks his lips and leans in, “I’m not really looking for … Continue reading Non-Celibacy
How Could I Allow It?
If we only knew what we cause when we allow anyone into our beds...
5 Reasons Women Lose Themselves in Relationships
In most of my past relationships, I have been the one building and sustaining the love, trust, and intimacy. I would give my time, energy, money, and my heart in my relationships because I value making my-love, feel loved and appreciated. In most cases, this behavior is not viewed negatively. There is nothing wrong with … Continue reading 5 Reasons Women Lose Themselves in Relationships
Missing a dream
I don't miss you, I miss who I thought you were. I miss the dream... The daydreams of you holding me tight as I fall asleep in your arms. The romantic trips we never took. Your eyes burning with desire for me. The thoughts I had of us living happily-ever-after... Our wedding day... Date nights... … Continue reading Missing a dream