I had to ask myself if settling was more important than my sanity.
What is normal?” To me, our normal is unnatural. It’s not about dressing provocatively or enjoying sex, it is about how little we require of men. We give it up for cheap... money, compliments, attention, company... we should at least give it to a man who adores us, who cherishes our soul and takes the … Continue reading Let’s Talk About Sex: Part 2
My celibacy is on purpose. You see, it is most certainly not an accident. Too many years of faking #newyearnewme led me to bed after bed of bullshit and lies. "My lies." Lies I told myself saying “I can handle it" as he licks his lips and leans in, “I’m not really looking for … Continue reading Non-Celibacy
If we only knew what we cause when we allow anyone into our beds...
In most of my past relationships, I have been the one building and sustaining the love, trust, and intimacy. I would give my time, energy, money, and my heart in my relationships because I value making my-love, feel loved and appreciated. In most cases, this behavior is not viewed negatively. There is nothing wrong with … Continue reading 5 Reasons Women Lose Themselves in Relationships
I don't miss you, I miss who I thought you were. I miss the dream... The daydreams of you holding me tight as I fall asleep in your arms. The romantic trips we never took. Your eyes burning with desire for me. The thoughts I had of us living happily-ever-after... Our wedding day... Date nights... … Continue reading Missing a dream
When your betrayal is quiet, the hurt is deeper. Not quiet as in "cannot hear" or "softly" but quiet as in silent, direct pain... sobering pain... absolute truth pain, designed to break me. You creep into my heart and steal it as you fade away. A distant thought as to how I could allow myself to … Continue reading Almost.
If a loved one is struggling with depression, it is important to do your best to support them, not judge them.
I think it is so important to have quality self-care in your relationship. The reality is, if you come into a relationship, broken, like I did, you will more than likely hurt the person you are with.
"Ashes to Ashes! Dust to side chicks!" -Beyonce'