to forgive them you must first forgive yourself.
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Category: Toxic Relationships
Love Lies
You will not have to lie to yourself for love.
What I Allowed
Admitting what I once allowed was one of the hardest things I have ever done ...
Why Your Ass Needs to Break Up With Him
Break up with him if your childhood self would be ashamed of what you allow in your relationship.
Dear Toxic Men
A letter to every toxic man who tried to manipulate a woman.
Non-Celibacy
My celibacy is on purpose. You see, it is most certainly not an accident. Too many years of faking #newyearnewme led me to bed after bed of bullshit and lies. "My lies." Lies I told myself saying “I can handle it" as he licks his lips and leans in, “I’m not really looking for … Continue reading Non-Celibacy
5 Reasons Women Lose Themselves in Relationships
In most of my past relationships, I have been the one building and sustaining the love, trust, and intimacy. I would give my time, energy, money, and my heart in my relationships because I value making my-love, feel loved and appreciated. In most cases, this behavior is not viewed negatively. There is nothing wrong with … Continue reading 5 Reasons Women Lose Themselves in Relationships
Missing a dream
I don't miss you, I miss who I thought you were. I miss the dream... The daydreams of you holding me tight as I fall asleep in your arms. The romantic trips we never took. Your eyes burning with desire for me. The thoughts I had of us living happily-ever-after... Our wedding day... Date nights... … Continue reading Missing a dream
Almost.
When your betrayal is quiet, the hurt is deeper. Not quiet as in "cannot hear" or "softly" but quiet as in silent, direct pain... sobering pain... absolute truth pain, designed to break me. You creep into my heart and steal it as you fade away. A distant thought as to how I could allow myself to … Continue reading Almost.
Depressed Love
If a loved one is struggling with depression, it is important to do your best to support them, not judge them.