My celibacy is on purpose. You see, it is most certainly not an accident. Too many years of faking #newyearnewme led me to bed after bed of bullshit and lies. "My lies." Lies I told myself saying “I can handle it" as he licks his lips and leans in, “I’m not really looking for … Continue reading Non-Celibacy

Be Different Babe

Be brave. Be bold. Be uniquely you. Be an innovator. Be the original, not the copy. Be #proud Be the example. Be #badass Be your truth. Be fearless. Be a boss. Be what they think you can’t be. Be a voice, not an echo. Be the expectation. Be different, babe. Be you.  


I miss the touch. That rough touch. You always gave me more than I needed, and yet, I always wanted more. I wanted more from us! I wanted more than our bed. I pant and relive every inch of that bed. Rolling over, we would meet eye-to-eye. You grab the back of my neck. Pull … Continue reading Rough

Be a Good Human

Stop being petty. Stop judging others. Stop discrimination. Stop paying women less than men. Stop cheating on your spouse. Stop cyber bullying. Stop posting memes to make fun of someone. Stop allowing others to bully someone else. Stop abusing children and older adults. Stop beating your kids to the point you break skin. Stop smoking … Continue reading Be a Good Human