We all have something to heal over, right? In 2017, I experienced online bullying for the first time. IT SUCKED SO BAD. It made me feel so vulnerable but it also showed me that women + femme needed a safe-space to share on social media without judgement, so I created The H.O.E. Truth (the old name).
I decided on H.O.E (Healing Over Everything™) because every woman I knew, at some point in her life had been called a “HO.” We are defying perfectionism, self-hate, and the word “HO” every single day with healing and it feels so good to be in a community of love.
Healing Over Everything (H.O.E.) is a virtual support group and safe-space.
Every week the group focuses on a specific topic related to self-love, women empowerment or healing, and each day there is a prompt question for group members to respond to. Members use this space to vent, share, and give advice/support. We encourage transparency, a strong focus on mental health + wellness, and mindfulness in this space. We support, empower, connect, and challenge one another in this space in hopes that we all grow stronger in our singleness, our relationships, our marriages, our motherhood and as a women + femme.
Some other amazing things we do weekly are #nomakeupmondays where everyone posts a selfie wearing no makeup (to learn more about this challenge, read #nomakeupmondays Challenge). Fine Women Friyay #FWF, mental health check-in’s and weekly group lives with amazing guests are also a part of joining this safe-space of bad ass women.
You may be wondering, how did I allow myself to stay in this toxic relationship for so long? Why am I still struggling to love my body? Why do I let people walk all over me? How will I ever have healthy relationships in my life? Is there something wrong with me? We have all asked some version of these questions in our journey and the answer is a lack of self-love.
Don’t beat yourself up, the reality is we are taught how to take care of others, not necessarily how to take care of ourselves.
If you are struggling with maintaining healthy relationships, have concerns with family + friends, struggling in your marriage or as a parent; if you need support with grief or loss, during or after a divorce or a bad breakup; if you are struggling with accepting your body or trusting your heart in making decisions, I am here to say that YOU ARE NOT ALONE.
Who can be a H.O.E.?
H.O.E is for all women + femme, including transgender women and those who are gender nonconforming, ages 18+. I am proud to say that we have every type of woman in this space; high school teens, college girls, heterosexual + lesbian women, cis-gender + transgender women, single + married women, older women, and mothers.
THIS GROUP IS HERE FOR THE HEART OF EVERY WOMAN.
Women united is the most powerful force in nature and H.O.E. is dedicated to providing a safe-space for all women heal and help others heal from toxic relationships, trauma, abuse, loneliness, divorce and our every day life experiences as women living in a male dominated society.
With over 1K members, Healing Over Everything is making its mark as a group that is “the only reason I am on Facebook.” – Gloria Madelyn (Member).
How to Join?
So, what are you healing over? No shame. No judgement, No fear. We are a safe-space and we are waiting for you. To join, click the button below and you will be directed to Healing Over Everything. Make sure to answer the safety questions for the Administration + Moderator team to review and we will gladly add you in the group.