A Beautiful Mold

You are the mold…scars and all.

You are the mold…flaws and all.

You are beautiful because you exist!

You are perfection because you continue to live!

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Blogger Appriecation  

I am seven away from having 1,000 views for the month of February! 😆This has been the most views, in a month, that my blog has received. 😄 

I am so honored to be a part of this community, and I want to thank every follower and the entire WordPress blogging community for the views, likes, comments and reblogs! 😊

It means more to me than any of you know! 

-Pinkspen 🤗

My Gratitude Journal: Day 1

Self-Care: Thankfulness and Gratitude

Do you need something positive, for yourself, in your life?

Often times, it can be difficult to look at life and see it for all the beauty that it brings. It is so easy for us to judge, point fingers, and complain, but it is important to point out the blessings in our lives because this is what keeps us humble. Expressing thanks and gratitude are so important, because even in difficult times, we are able to focus on the positive aspects of life. Stress is a killer, and finding ways to reduce stress is so important for healthy living.

Introducing positive self-care habits into your life, can help relieve stress and give you another outlook on your current situation.

Keeping a Gratitude Journal can help with can provide multiple benefits:

“As we’ve reported many times over the years, studies have traced a range of impressive benefits to the simple act of writing down the things for which we’re grateful—benefits including better sleep, fewer symptoms of illness, and more happiness among adults and kids alike.” -Jason Marsh

Read More: Tips for Keeping a Gratitude Journal  http://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/tips_for_keeping_a_gratitude_journal

What is a Gratitude Journal?

According to Jason Marsh , “The basic practice is straightforward. In many of the studies, people are simply instructed to record five things they experienced in the past week for which they’re grateful. The entries are supposed to be brief—just a single sentence—and they range from the mundane (“waking up this morning”) to the sublime (“the generosity of friends”) to the timeless (“the Rolling Stones”).”

“For years I’ve been advocating the power and pleasure of being grateful. I kept a gratitude journal for a full decade without fail—and urged you all to do the same. Then life got busy. My schedule overwhelmed me. I still opened my journal some nights, but my ritual of writing down five things I was grateful for every day started slipping away.” -Oprah Winfrey

Read More: What Oprah Knows for Sure About Gratitude http://www.oprah.com/spirit/oprahs-gratitude-journal-oprah-on-gratitude

The most important aspect about keeping a Gratitude Journal is highlighting those things that you are grateful for, the positive things in your life, and the things that bring you joy.

My Pledge

It is important for me to keep this journal because I have low moments, and I need to remind myself of my blessings. I have been slowly adapting self-care habits into my life because I do not want to be a pessimistic, negative thinking, spiteful person. I have not always expressed myself in the most healthy way, and with this Gratitude Journal, I am hoping I can express and remind myself that there is so much to be thankful for.

Pledge: Every day, for the next 7 days, I will write down 5 things that I am grateful for; the positive things in my life, and the things that make me happy!

Journal Entry 1

Today was a really rough day for me. I have not been in the best mood…my personal life is a little rocky but I can still see the joys in my life. Although, I am not sure of what the future holds, I know that God has me in his hands and he will guide me through whatever obstacles that may come my way. I am truly thankful and so grateful for so many things in my life, but it is important to document these things because it is easy to take things for granted. I don’t want to forget my blessings, and I don’t want to be ungrateful for all that God has blessed me with.

1. I am so grateful for my beautiful daughter! She is so intelligent, energetic, and she has a beautiful spirit. I am so blessed to have her, to hold her, to watch her grow up. I thank God for this little girl and I love her more and more every day. 

2. I have a great family! My mother, father, younger sister, my cousins… their support, love, and prayers are what motivates me to be a better me. 

3. I am grateful for waking up in the morning, for life and breath!

4. I am grateful for writing. It helps me get through tough times because I can express my thoughts in a way that I cannot when I speak.

5. I feel so blessed for my boyfriend. He is such an awesome father, and I do not tell him enough. No matter the difficulties, we have so much love for one another. I cherish our love and value our relationship.

-Pinkspen

Healthy Relationships Require Healthy People

I think it is so important to have quality self-care in your relationship. The reality is, if you come into a relationship, broken, like I did, you will more than likely hurt the person you are with.

COLLEGE MATE

When it comes to building healthy relationships, many people try to start with the relationship itself. While this isn’t a bad idea, the truth is, people are the foundations of relationships; and like anything else in life, if we don’t start with a strong foundation, the building never holds up for very long.

Who are Healthy People?

Healthy people are those who come to the table without emotional baggage, and with their priorities in check. Health should also cover the physical state of the individual, including their HIV status.

This is not to say that people with mental and physical illnesses cannot and should not enter into relationships. What it does mean is that should either of you make such a decision, do so knowing what you’re getting yourself into, and preparing for the obstacles ahead.

Mental Health

The current estimate is that one in five American adults experience mental…

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