Netflix and Chill

The College Girl Dating Rulebook

Rule #6: If he asks you to “come over and watch a movie” at 10PM or later, DO NOT GO!

I never thought I could be so gullible…

When he asked me to come over to watch a movie, I was so excited because I thought he had asked me out on a mini-date.

When I got there, he actually put on a movie… (sometimes, they don’t!) 

As we watched and talked a bit, like most girls, I jumped waaaaayyyy ahead of myself and started thinking that he wanted to be my boyfriend, how we would get married and if our future kids would look more like me or him? (stupid)

My intentions were so innocent. 

I genuinely thought that he wanted to get to know me. I thought that we would talk, watch a movie, and plan to meet up again. 

Doing any more than that was the last thing on my mind. I never thought that I would give more than just my company…but guess what…

The guy that is looking for a f*** buddy knows just what to say to get you in their bed.

Sometimes, it is simple, like “wanna come watch a movie?” But, if he asks you to come over at midnight, believe me, he wants more than company… IT IS A TRICK!

Once they get you to come over, they will use every line in the book to get you to do more, waaaayyyy more than you intended… 

Often times than not, you will do more than you planned.

Women have needs and wants just like men. 

You need to be honest with yourself… Can you really handle casual sex? 

Just because you want company, this does not mean you need company… and in this case, you wanted company, and ended up doing more than you wanted.
You are not as strong as you think you are, so, just don’t go over to his place, his dorm room, his friends house… just don’t go! Even if you know he wants more than just to watch a movie, and you think you can fight him off or change his mind, you can’t, so, if you don’t want to hook up with him, DO NOT GO! Watch a movie with your girls…

You want to be able to look yourself in the mirror in the morning…

-Pinkspen

 

****************************

Featured Image Source: StockSnap.io

Advertisements

Published by

Pinkspen

Welcome ladies and gentlemen! I am Pinkspen – BA|MSW, Professional Blogger, Feminist, Counselor, and Equality Advocate. I am the Founder of LADYHOOD journey. I created this brand to promote self-love, equal rights, healthy relationships, and health & wellness, and to also challenge social concerns like body shaming, beauty standards, and insecurities. I want women and all my readers to leave my site feeling uplifted, supported, and empowered. I love to spend time with my daughter, going to local bars and restaurants with family & friends, online shopping, photography, sipping Chia Tea or Iced Coffee, sitting on my porch while drinking a glass of wine or dark beer, and listening to music from artists like Alessia Cara, Jhene Aiko, Khalid, Frank Ocean, Coldplay, and Kings of Leon.

4 thoughts on “Netflix and Chill

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s