University College of the World
A College Girls Guide to Dating Syllabus
Fall-Spring 2016-2017, LIFE 12345, 67890
Instructor: Ta’lor Pinkston, MSW
Office Hours: M/T/W/Th/F/S/Sun 12:00a-11:59p
Welcome & Introduction:
Welcome to College 101 for Freshman Females. We will begin this course together where we will work together to prevent the most common mistakes that freshman females make when it comes to various forms of relationships on a college campus. This class is for freshman girls in college, “upper-classwomen,” and high school girls who will someday graduate and be shipped off to a world that I wish someone prepared me for. Enroll in this course today!
Most girls who graduate high school, want to go to college to get a degree, but we all have the desire for other things like freedom, new experiences, meeting new people, making new friendships, dating, and of course going to parties.
For freshman girls, dating and going to parties is a major part of our college experience and for that first semester you are the “fresh meat” or the hottest thing on campus because no one has had your goodies and everyone wants to see who can “hit it” first.
This course is designed to help you navigate through the college dating experience whether you are attending a big or small university.
Know Your Worth.
Course Components and Specifics:
This is a judgement free zone. We have all made mistakes so no one person is better than the other. This course seeks to prevent common mistakes that females make when entering college. Each student must participate actively, by providing feedback and giving advice to those in need. Plagiarism and cheating are not tolerated; you are an individual who does not need to copy others to make your own statement.
100% attendance is required to complete this course. Being absent is non-existent.
Course Requirements/Grading Policy:
There are no grades in this course. You have the right to withdrawal from this course at any time. Being a lady is a choice, not a right. There will be no speeches, tests, or exams in this course. But, you will be tested on and off campus, daily, so take this course as a preparation for the rest of your college career!
Most men want your “goodies” and they will say or do anything to get it. Be mindful of what you want. Do you know if you want casual sex or to be in a genuine relationship?
When someone gives you attention by touching, giving compliments, flirting etc. see how long it takes, (without having sex), for the flirting, touching and compliments to stop.
When a male is flirting, touching, and complimenting you, it will feel good. Of course he is doing this; you are beautiful, sexy, confident, and worth touching. But, know that he is saying the same things to at least 5-10 other females, if he is not pursuing you to make it official.
When someone wants to be in a relationship with you, they will make it happen. Men are hunters and they know what they want. This is the same for same-sex relationship. Whoever is hunting, hunts for a reason. This could be sexual or for intimacy.
Don’t have sex with them if the only date you have had together is in the Student Union on campus.
DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH MULTIPLE MALES ON THE SAME TEAM. FOR EXAMPLE: FOOTBALL, BASKETBALL, BASEBALL, SOCCER, GOLF, even Intramural sports teams. THIS ALSO MEANS DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH FRIENDS FROM THE SAME GROUP.
Side Note: Just because you have not seen two males hanging together, does not mean that they are not friends so, be careful!
If he asks you to come over and watch a movie at 10:00 pm or later, DO NOT GO unless you want to hook-up.
Being single can be amazing. It is okay to be single, and you are not a lost cause because you are not in a relationship. Just have fun with friends.
If your friend slept with him, don’t sleep with him. If your enemy slept with him, don’t sleep with him.
Most females think that they can handle the friends-with-benefits relationship or casual sex, mainly because the male suggests it, but most cannot; be honest with yourself. If you catch feelings, tell him and if he does not feel the same, pull out of the relationship immediately!
If you are dating or in a relationship, don’t spend so much time with your significant other that you stop spending time with your friends. You have to find the balance.
If you want love and a relationship, you cannot have sex right away when dating; make them work for it. If you don’t, they will not only treat you like you are every other female.
USE CONDOMS OR ANOTHER FORM OF CONTRACEPTION, INCLUDING GETTING TESTED FOR STI’s, STD’s, AND HIV/AIDS, if you are sexually active.
HAVE SELF-CONTROL OVER WHO YOU LET IN YOUR BED! Do not have a sleep over just to have some company!
Be a mystery! People love to gossip, especially guys … don’t allow yourself to be the hottest discussion topic.
If you have any questions in regards to the course schedule, please do not hesitate to contact me (email above) for further assistance, Self-love Coaching and other resources available to you.