Dear 18-year-old me

Dear 18-year-old me,

There are just 3.5 months in between your high school graduation and your first day on a college campus…

Just because you are 18, you are not officially an adult; there are still parts of your brain that have not fully developed.

It’s okay to call your parents for help!

It is okay to be young. So, you can’t get into any bars off campus…enjoy it, because one day you will be an adult with responsibilities you cannot imagine.

Just because you are a freshman now, eventually you will be a senior, and you will need your professors, mentors, employers, etc. so make a good impression.

Go to class and be there on time.

Join every club and organization you can, without it affecting your grades.

Try to make positive connections with everyone you meet.

Make new friends immediately, don’t just hang out with people you already know.

Never room with a friend! Acquaintances are good, but rooming with your best friend, or even a close friend is B.A.D.

Everyone is not your friend. Let them go!

Do not always choose your relationship over your friends. Friendship is a relationship too!

Do not tell everyone your “business” (who you are talking to/or in a relationship with, where you were last night, who you were with, etc.)

Spending too much time on social media will get you in trouble.

Every guy that flirts with you does not want to marry or be in a relationship with you! I repeat, they do not all want to be with you.

Girls…hook-ups do not work for most of you. You get too attached as most girls do, so don’t even play that friends-with-benefits game.

If you think someone is cheating on you or talking to other females, they are!

You will make sooooooooooooooooooo many mistakes…and it is okay.

Love yourself. You are not perfect, but you are perfectly made.




P.S. Be strong in yourself! It’s okay to be alone; you don’t need a relationship!



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Ta'lor Pinkspen

Welcome ladies and gentlemen! This is Ta'lor Pinkspen, BA|MSW|SFW, Inspirational Blogger for women, Poet, Prospective Self-love Coach, Feminist, Equality Advocate, and Women & Family Therapist My blog focuses on Women's Empowerment, Beauty Standards, Body Positivity, Motherhood, Healthy Relationships, College girls and Equality. LADYHOOD journey seeks to uplift all women and promote self-love. LADYHOOD journey challenges social concerns like body shaming, beauty standards, racial and gender discrimination, in order to empower women to be advocates and to incorporate self-love into their journey. I want women and all my readers to leave my site feeling uplifted, supported, and empowered in every stage of life. I love to spend time with my daughter, going to local bars and restaurants with family & friends, online shopping, photography, writing poetry, sipping Chia Tea or Iced Coffee, sitting on my porch while drinking a glass of dry red wine or dark beer, and listening to music from artists like Chance the Rapper, SZA, Pentatonix, H.E.R, Alessia Cara, Sabrina Claudio, Jhene Aiko, Frank Ocean, Coldplay, and Kings of Leon.

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