The College Girl Dating Rulebook

Going to college was one of the best and interesting experiences of my life; I learned so much about myself and I learned many lessons about men and relationships…

Most individuals go to college to get a degree, but in the back of everyone’s mind, we all have the desire for other things like freedom, new experiences, meeting new people, making new friendships, dating, and of course going to parties.

For freshman girls, dating and going to parties is a major part of our college experience and for that first semester you are the “fresh meat” or the hottest thing on campus because no one has had your goodies and everyone wants to see who can “hit it” first.

With this, please read the following before you get too drunk and run into the starting quarterback on the football team:

  1. Most men want your “goodies” and they will say or do anything to get it!!!!!!

  2. If and when someone gives you attention by touching, giving compliments, flirting etc. see how long it takes, (without having sex), for the flirting, touching and compliments to stop.

  3. When a male is flirting, touching, and complimenting you, it will feel good. Of course he is doing this; you are beautiful, sexy, confident, and worth touching. But, know that he is saying the same things to probably about 10 other females if he is not trying to make it official.

  4. When someone wants to be in a relationship with you, they will make it happen. Men are hunters and they know what they want. This is the same for same-sex relationship. Whoever is hunting, hunts for a reason. This could be sexual or for intimacy.

  5. Don’t have sex with anyone if the only meal you have had together is in the Student Union on campus.

  6. DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH MULTIPLE MALES ON THE SAME TEAM. FOR EXAMPLE: FOOTBALL, BASKETBALL, BASEBALL, SOCCER, GOLF, even Intramural sports teams. THIS ALSO MEANS DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH FRIENDS FROM THE SAME GROUP.(Just because you have not seen two males hanging together, does not mean that they are not friends so be careful!)

  7. If he asks you to come over and watch a movie at 10:00p or later, DO NOT GO!

  8. It is okay to be single, you do not need a relationship. Just have fun with friends.

  9. If your friend slept with him, don’t sleep with him. If your enemy slept with him, don’t sleep with him.

  10. Most females think that they can handle the friends-with-benefits relationship mainly because the male suggests it, but most cannot; be honest with yourself. If you catch feelings, tell him and if he does not feel the same, pull out of the relationship immediately!

  11. Don’t spend so much time with your significant other that you stop spending time with your friends. You have to find the balance.

  12. If you want love and a relationship, you cannot have sex  right away; you have to make them work for it. If you don’t, they will not only treat you like you are every other female.

  13. USE CONDOMS OR ANOTHER FORM OF CONTRACEPTION, INCLUDING GETTING TESTED FOR STI’s, STD’s, AND HIV/AIDS, if you are sexually active.

  14. HAVE SELF-CONTROL OVER WHO YOU LET IN YOUR BED! Do not have a sleep over just to have some company!

  15. Be a mystery! People love to gossip, especially guys…don’t allow yourself to be the hottest discussion topic.

-Pinkspen

Please visit College 101 for Freshman Females to enroll in this course today!

 

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Ta'lor Pinkspen

Welcome ladies and gentlemen! This is Ta'lor Pinkspen, BA|MSW|SFW, Inspirational Blogger for women, Poet, Prospective Self-love Coach, Feminist, Equality Advocate, and Women & Family Therapist My blog focuses on Women's Empowerment, Beauty Standards, Body Positivity, Motherhood, Healthy Relationships, College girls and Equality. LADYHOOD journey seeks to uplift all women and promote self-love. LADYHOOD journey challenges social concerns like body shaming, beauty standards, racial and gender discrimination, in order to empower women to be advocates and to incorporate self-love into their journey. I want women and all my readers to leave my site feeling uplifted, supported, and empowered in every stage of life. I love to spend time with my daughter, going to local bars and restaurants with family & friends, online shopping, photography, writing poetry, sipping Chia Tea or Iced Coffee, sitting on my porch while drinking a glass of dry red wine or dark beer, and listening to music from artists like Chance the Rapper, SZA, Pentatonix, H.E.R, Alessia Cara, Sabrina Claudio, Jhene Aiko, Frank Ocean, Coldplay, and Kings of Leon.

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